So you know about
law of attraction. You know that your thoughts
and feelings create your reality, and that you
have ultimate control of what comes to you,
including the amount of money that flows into
your experience. Perhaps you are putting what
you know about law of attraction into practice,
and are reaping an abundance of money (if so,
you can probably stop reading here!). Or perhaps
you have been trying to apply it, and feel like
you're doing everything 'right', but are still
not experiencing the riches you desire? If you
fall into the second category, you are
experiencing resistance to wealth. You want it,
but have not yet come to the point of easily
allowing it. Fortunately, this need only be a
temporary state!
Resistance arises
in response to various 'blocks' in our energy.
These blocks commonly take the form of
disempowering beliefs that we have picked up
over the course of our lives. Given the relative
lack of wealth consciousness in society
generally, it is unsurprising that most people
grow up with negative attitudes to financial
abundance. In many cases, these attitudes are so
deeply internalised that the person holding the
belief isn't consciously aware of it. Or maybe
they're not aware that it is a belief as such;
it is just part of their worldview, or 'how
things are'.
If you're to
allow wealth to flow into your life in an easy,
abundant manner, it might be helpful to
deliberately identify these blocking beliefs and
replace them with more empowering alternatives.
Everyone has their individual 'sticking points',
but there are some beliefs that are especially
common, and these are listed below, together
with possible 'remedies'.
Limiting belief #1:
I don't deserve to be rich.
Replace with:
I am fully deserving of all the abundance this
life experience has to offer. It is my
birthright as a perfect part of this magnificent
time-space reality.
Limiting belief #2:
I don't deserve to have money come to me easily
- I must work long and hard for it.
Replace with:
Money comes primarily in response to vibrational
alignment, not physical action. Society preaches
the lie that hard work is necessary, but this is
misguided. Money can come in minutes, or in
years, and after enormous effort, or no effort
at all. The choice is mine.
Limiting belief #3:
Rich people are
greedy/evil/exploitative/wasteful/thieves
[insert any of many pejoratives here!], and I
don't want to be like that.
Replace with:
Rich people, like people at all levels of net
worth, may be nice or nasty. There are plenty of
rich people who are extremely agreeable, and who
are generous with their resources. Rich people
have been given a poor image by those with less
who are jealous of them, but this image is not,
in most cases, based on fact. My level of wealth
has no direct connection to my personality - I
can choose to remain a nice person, and be very
wealthy too.
Limiting belief #4:
I can't make money doing what I love - I have to
do this work that I hate, but that pays well.
Replace with:
It is possible to make an abundance of money in
any field. The secret is not in the action, but
the alignment of energy. I can choose to pursue
the activities I love, and be in alignment with
wealth at the same time. There is never any need
to do something I dislike on a permanent basis.
Limiting belief #5:
You don't get something for nothing. There's no
such thing as a free lunch. You have to suffer
and struggle to get anywhere.
Replace with:
This is another societal myth that is not based
in fact. It is perfectly possible to 'get'
without struggle. The more I align with a
vibration of wealth, the more easily everything
will flow to me. And paradoxically, the more I
struggle, the harder it will be to get what I
want - unless I choose to make myself suffer for
a while before I allow it in, which is really
rather silly!
Limiting belief #6:
I'm too old/young/female/male/wrong skin colour/uneducated/overqualified/tall/short/fat/skinny
[insert excuse here!] to make decent money.
Replace with:
My physical body and life circumstances are
irrelevant. People of all ages, races,
appearances, abilities and backgrounds have
become are rich, or remained poor. Their results
were dependent on how their flowed their energy,
and nothing else.
Limiting belief #7:
I don't trust that
law of attraction works. I can't take the risk.
Replace with:
I don't need to trust in law
of attraction for it to work, any more than I
need to trust in the law of gravity - it is at
work every second of my life. And there's no
need to take any risks; I need only take steps
that feel comfortable and joyful. If I feel the
need to 'prove' that law of attraction works, I
can deliberately try to manifest some small
things that aren't so important to me, where I
have less resistance.
Limiting belief #8:
The people in my life will give me a hard time
if I make lots of money.
Replace with:
I am responsible for the
behaviour I attract from others. If I feel
totally good about becoming wealthy, I'll either
attract corresponding attitudes in others, or
they (or at least their negative attitudes) will
no longer be a part of my experience. And even
if I do experience some negativity along the
way, that need not be a problem. I can't please
everyone, and I shouldn't try. Their issues with
wealth are none of my business.
If you
recognise any of these beliefs as your own, try
making a conscious effort to practice a more
empowering alternative. The 'antidotes' given
above might be helpful, or - even better - you
can write a personalised version of your own.
Traditional spoken affirmations can work well
when it comes to instilling new thought
patterns, but writing them down is even better.
It is also worth using EFT or similar releasing
techniques to unblock at an energy level.
Of course
there are many other beliefs that block the flow
of wealth - if none of the above apply to you,
you can probably identify your own personal
blocks with a bit of thought. Hint: if you're
feeling negative emotion when thinking about
money, there's a block in your energy. Try to
catch yourself in the act of feeling bad, and
ask yourself what you're thinking that is making
you feel that way. There's no need to spend much
time focusing on the negative however - as soon
as you're aware of where your blocks lie,
immediately switch your attention to the
positive alternative, and keep your focus there
as much as you can.
It might feel
like your old beliefs have a strong hold on you,
but with a bit of consistent effort, it takes a
surprisingly small amount of time to replace
them with something better. And law of
attraction will help you too, by bring even more
new positive thoughts in response to the new
belief that you're practising, thus
strengthening it.
One thing is
for sure: in the absence of resistance in the
form of old disempowering beliefs, money will
flow to you - it must!